My daughters look forward to Friday. Truth be told, it’s a day with lots of work for them. Since it’s Erev Shabbos there’s a plethora of chores to get done. Cooking, cleaning, setting the table, baths and fresh clothes – Erev Shabbos is a busy day for everyone in our household.
Yet Mushka and Chavie are excited because they will usher in the Shabbat with the lighting of the candles. They can’t wait until their little sister Shaina grows up a bit and joins them! Starting at three years old, they each light their own candle.
We once had a guest that frowned at this tradition. “How can you let a three-year old kindle a fire?” she exclaimed. “Aren’t you teaching her bad habits?”